Why the 4B Movement and Women’s Support Circles Are Crucial in Today’s America
As the world watches, South Korea’s 4B movement, or “Four No’s”—no dating, no sex, no marriage, and no childbearing—is capturing international attention. Driven by a powerful, collective rejection of traditional societal expectations, many South Korean women are choosing to redefine their futures, prioritizing autonomy over fulfilling historical roles. And, as American women observe the unfolding of restrictive government policies affecting reproductive rights, healthcare, and more, there’s a natural resonance. Many are beginning to adopt similar principles, spurred by an urgent desire for autonomy and safety.
In the U.S., the recent 2024 election marks a turning point that amplifies these fears. With a new administration under Donald Trump, we face an era that threatens hard-won freedoms. American women and mothers are increasingly alarmed about what this could mean for reproductive rights, access to healthcare, and their ability to make choices about their bodies. Women today find themselves on the precipice of change, in which the safety and stability of motherhood and womanhood are, in many ways, under siege.
The 4B Movement’s Rise and the Ripple Effect in America
The 4B movement has risen in South Korea in response to oppressive societal expectations and systemic issues like gender inequality and limited reproductive rights. South Korean women are setting a powerful example by choosing not to marry or have children, reclaiming autonomy over their bodies and lives. This act of defiance has contributed to record low birth rates and school enrollments; fewer first-graders are entering the school system than ever before—a stark statement from women who feel they’ve been left with no other recourse to make their voices heard.
In the U.S., this philosophy is finding new relevance on spaces like TikTok. Facing the prospect of tightened restrictions on reproductive rights and the potential rollback of laws that protect access to birth control, IVF, and other forms of healthcare, American women are questioning whether it is safe to have children—or even to engage in relationships that could lead to pregnancy. Women are also taking a closer look at what raising daughters under this administration could mean, especially with legislation potentially limiting healthcare options and increasing maternal health risks.
The threat here is twofold. Not only are women’s rights at risk, but so is the future of our daughters. Today, we stand in the shadow of political decisions that could strip away the essential healthcare and freedoms many have come to expect. With reproductive rights being questioned and maternal healthcare increasingly at the whim of legislators, American women are grappling with new forms of fear and responsibility—one that affects their children’s futures as much as their own.
Why American Women are Turning to Community
In this moment, community is becoming one of the strongest tools we have. The impulse to turn inward—to create women’s circles, support networks, and online communities—is natural. Many women feel safer navigating these turbulent times in spaces where they can share resources, experiences, and hope.
We are seeing a rise in grassroots organizations, local meetups, and virtual spaces dedicated to supporting women and mothers. The landscape of American motherhood is shifting toward a model that places a high value on resilience, connection, and collective empowerment. Women are leaning on one another not only for emotional support but also for practical information on healthcare, birth control options, and family planning alternatives.
If this administration has made anything clear, it is that our rights are not guaranteed. Women are beginning to adapt to this reality in profound ways, from choosing to abstain or stock up on birth control while it remains accessible, to encouraging frank conversations with their children about the new landscape we face.
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join todaylearn moreA Call to Protect Our Daughters—and Sons—Through Education and Empathy
Our role as mothers and women, now more than ever, is to educate. We must raise our daughters to understand the potential consequences and risks of pregnancy and to value their autonomy. At the same time, we must teach our sons empathy, respect, and an awareness of the complex realities that girls and women encounter. These conversations, once optional, have become essential. Our children need to understand the stakes involved, not just in terms of physical health, but also in terms of personal rights and dignity.
I am the mother of a ten-year-old daughter, and the thought of her facing an uncertain future where pregnancy could be even more dangerous or fatal than ever, due to lack of medical options, weighs heavily on my heart. This concern isn’t abstract; it is urgent and pressing, one that demands both immediate action and long-term preparation. We cannot allow fear to paralyze us, nor can we afford to ignore the real dangers that could come from navigating adolescence and adulthood under such restrictive conditions.
Finding Strength and Hope in Our Collective Resilience
In times of fear and uncertainty, there is a saying: “Be like water.” This fluid adaptability is something we must embrace. We cannot predict exactly how these policies will unfold, nor can we single-handedly change them, but we can be resilient and unwavering in our commitment to each other and our children.
In the coming years, we will likely see a rise in women’s collectives and support networks that continue to share information, resources, and emotional support. We will undoubtedly need these structures to empower ourselves and protect each other’s health and autonomy. The landscape of womanhood in America is shifting, but we have the power to shape it into something sustainable and supportive, something that serves as both a shield and a beacon.
This November, as we absorb the reality of another historical shift, we must keep hope alive. The strength of women, mothers, and communities has been proven time and again, and our determination to protect our daughters and sons will guide us. It’s a time to not only reflect on what this means for us as individuals but also to unite as a community.
Our path forward may require us to reshape traditions and establish new norms, but one thing is clear: women will not stand idly by. We will advocate for a future where our daughters can feel safe, where they are respected and protected, and where their health and freedoms are honored. This may be one of the most daunting eras in recent history, but it is also a time of profound awakening.
Let us commit to resilience, unity, and hope. Let us teach our daughters to understand their worth and help our sons to recognize the strength and value of the women in their lives. And, above all, let us stand together—unwavering, determined, and ready for whatever comes next. The future may be uncertain, but our resolve is not.
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